Gurpreet Dhariwal

I am up for a small exercise as my dearest friend on LinkedIn is spreading words of positivity and motivation throughout this journey of life.  I am going to share my take on this and I hope if you would do the same it may resolve many issues within self. The answer always lies within.  Record and update answers to the following questions in every context - emotional, personal, family, financial and spiritual, etc.  a)      What are my values?  My values come from my parents to huge extent and no matter what they have never told me to give up ever in life. I am equally amazed as their way of motivating me at times just by looking at my face and I will always be thankful for their sheer love and faith in me. The more I get to know them, the more I realize they could be my best friends as they have plenty of things to share with me. b)     What do I stand by? I stand for justice and I don’t believe in degrading others. I don’t even believe in letting som

It’s not my time to make new friends because I don’t trust people easily anymore. But yesterday, I interacted with a woman in my Gym. She comes everyday in the evening with her daughter as her daughter needs to shed some extra fats. We all were cycling together so she asked me 'why do I come to Gym?'. I told her to keep myself super active and also I love being healthy. Then one layer of conversation led to another and I realized we both have one thing in common i.e. Writing. She is writing her first book that too in Hindi. She was feeling hesitated to share this as people are more inclined to read in English but I told her write your heart-out in the language in which you can give your best shot. She instantly asked for my Instagram handle which I shared and checked her posts too. She writes well and I don’t think so she wouldn’t do great in Hindi language. I personally believe language is just a way to interact else people who cannot speak interact amongst themselves too

Sometimes I believe life would have been so much easier if there was an operative manual for it. I would have applied less logical thoughts to all unnecessary and stupid conversations, sleeping like a baby in the night. I felt this so deeply that there should be a manual so I am thinking of creating one for myself. I believe my first and foremost manual would be on “how to move on?”. I am someone who already writes, goes to the gym, rides a bicycle, goes for running, does everything that one could expect a single person to do to get hold of life, so for me, this manual is mandate to survive my dark side. I believe we all have it but some of us deny it. There is nothing to be ashamed of it but then acceptance is as much important as any other aspect of life to heal you positively. I am taking baby steps to come out of my shell before I lose it all and I know if I would keep on working on myself, I will win over this darkness that’s eating me up from inside. I guess, it has always bee